You're right. I can't control that I'm Asian, but there's a lot that I am in control of...lol. And I really do want to be wrong but I think (I can only truly speak for south Asians because that's my community but we're not that unique, I'm sure it applies to other communities too) there really is a certain level of internalized racism that leads to some people seeking out white partners. As though white inherently means better--which it objectively doesn't. It'll definitely be different. But it's not guaranteed to be better.